Communication Is The Key

Communication is the Key reason that leads to breaking ups in couples. Getting into an affair is an exciting time, and one of the greatest joys in your life. You are nearly to begin a new episode in your living. That is like no other chapter you have experienced before. However, perhaps there are a few things on your mind that you are afraid to say. It’s not unusual to have second thoughts before getting married or “jitters.” However, sometimes, the second thoughts are our instincts trying to tell us something. That instinct may be trying to say, “Are you sure that marriage is the right thing to do with this particular person? Are you sure that this is a good relationship?”

Just because someone will offer you a ring does not mean that that person is the right person for you. Pay attention to your gut and listen. Your instinct may be trying to tell you to watch those little red flags, creeping up in your relationship. The bottom line? Breaking up is a thousand times easier than divorce, my friend. It takes minutes to get a marriage license. A divorce? That could take years.

 Communication Is The KeyFamily Trouble And Control Issues

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Communication Is The Key To Maintain A Good Relationship

Is there already family drama? Is his mom or her dad already making your life hell? Do you find your partner-to-be always siding with family? Or, instead, leaving you to deal with family battles while he or she slinks away, afraid to get involved? If you answered yes, you’ve got a huge red flag waving right in your face. Those family troubles will not go away once you marry. So if you see these struggles happening already, you ought to ask yourself if you are willing to move to this family for life.

Are you ready to deal with this type of drama, say, when you have a child? Think about it.

Does your partner need to know every single thing you are doing? Do you think your other half to be in charge always? Do you find yourself doing less of what you used to love? Seeing the people, you like less? Have your friends noted your partner’s aggressive or overly assertive behavior? Have your friends accused you of changing since you met this person?

 Slight Digs or Explosive Fights And Opposites DON’T Attract

Does your partner make slight digs at you here and there? When you fight, is it explosive or incredibly passive-aggressive? Do your fights dwindle your spirits so much that it feels hard to get back to the right place with each other? And then when you finally feel better, is the relationship hot and heavy again?

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Communication Is The Key To Maintain A Good Relationship

No, no, and no! This is not right or healthy to be in a relationship. Many people get addicted, yes addicted, to these hot and cold relationships. But the bottom line is two healthy people fight together. Two healthy people tell each other how they feel without attacking the other person. Two healthy people compete in a way that does not hurt or belittle the other person.

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